In this week’s episode of the podcast, I’m challenging you to answer the question, “Am I negotiating with my own success?”

As we enter the final six months of 2023, it’s crucial to take inventory of your commitment to personal growth and achievement. Half the battle of success is simply showing up.

Here’s the truth: you are the only thing holding yourself back from reaching your full potential. To finish the year strong, you must make a commitment to show up consistently and persistently. No product or pitch can magically change your luck; it’s your dedication and willingness to show up every day that will make the difference.



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Cristina asked me a question: What do I believe was the secret behind our early success with the business?

And I thought about it. And I you know, I was trying to think of maybe some marketing tip or some strategy I was using. But what I really what came out of my mouth almost involuntarily and it really there was no hesitation after she asked question as I said, I just showed up.

My name is Andy NEARY and this is episode 243. Today, I am going to ask you a very simple question. Are you willing to do whatever it takes to succeed? Now, before we dive into today’s episode, I want to make a very quick announcement for our sponsor. Complete game consulting. Yes, that is my company. And we do not take on any outside sponsors.

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I want you to give us a look. That’s what we do. We help you book more appointments with the right prospects by teaching you a marketing process we call the Complete Game Marketing Playbook. So if you are one of my health insurance advisors, one of my commercial risk advisors listening in first. Thank you. I am grateful that you take the time to listen every week, but if you know you could use help booking more appointments, go check us out.

A link is in the show notes and we will get a call scheduled with our team. All right, back to today’s episode. Are you willing to do whatever it takes to succeed? The topic for today’s podcast came from a conversation I had with my business coach last week, and we were meeting at our regularly scheduled time 8 a.m. Central Friday morning, and we were having a conversation because the meeting was on June 30th, so we were at the halfway point of 2023 and we spent some of the call, the early part of the call looking back at the first half of the year, and I went back over the first six months and just reflected

on kind of the lessons I’ve learned the first six months of the year, some successes we’ve had, you know, things I was proud of, both personally and professionally. And we were talking about the success we’ve been fortunate to have here, a complete game consulting for those who are unfamiliar. We’ve been around really since January 2021. I started the business, the legal name APM Consulting, LLC.

I started that in 2019, but at that time I was still a health insurance advisor. I still had a live book of business. I really didn’t go all in on what is known today as complete game consulting until January of 2021. So we’ve been around now for 18 months excuse me, 36. Can’t do that 30 months. Can’t do the math today.

We have been around for two and a half years and we were reflecting on the growth we have had over the last two and a half years. And we’ve been fortunate enough to experience some pretty tremendous growth in the first two and a half years of the business. I’m very proud of it. But we were talking about why, what to do?

She asked. Kristina asked me a question What do I believe was the secret behind our early success with the business? And I thought about it. And I you know, I was trying to think of maybe some marketing tip or some strategy I was using. But what I really what came out of my mouth almost and voluntarily and it really there was no hesitation after she asked the question, as I said, I’ve just showed up every day.

And that led us down the path of a pretty detailed conversation about what does it mean to show up every day and it leads to today’s topic of what are you willing to do to succeed? Are you willing to do whatever it takes to succeed in your business? And I have to be honest, when I look at the insurance industry right now, I think that answer is no.

For far too many insurance advisors, you are not willing to go as far as you have to go to do whatever you have to do to win. Why not? So sure you like doing what you do in the first place. I know that’s hard to hear, but let me hear me out. If you think about the insurance industry, I did not get in.

But in this industry by design, I don’t know about you. I was sold the dream back when I was 22 years old. I was approached by a family member who is in the business who told me that I should come and give this insurance thing a try because if I stuck around long enough, I would enjoy the schedule, flexibility and the lifestyle that this business creates.

And it is one of the best lifestyle businesses you could find. However, with that carrot in front of me as it was, it is for so many, probably you as well. It’s easy for us to get in this industry, to seek the financial success, to seek the rewards without really enjoying what we do in the first place, because you’re so hell bent on just making money, you’re not building a foundation for long term success.

Heck, you might not even be interested in building a foundation of long term success because you want to win now. And that that mindset is why I see so many advisors today unwilling to go above and beyond unwilling to do whatever it takes to win business. And I’m not saying now let me let me be very clear about something here.

When I say doing whatever it takes, I’m not saying saying whatever you need to say or selling whatever you need to sell, just a witness, not what I’m talking about. I’m saying, how hard are you willing to work to grow your business? You see the difference between where you are today and your business? Reaching its full potential is not going to be found in some hack, some some silver bullet, some script, some product.

It’s going to be found in your ability to go the extra mile, to work your living face off to get what you want. It is that simple. So as Christine and I were reflecting on the early success of Complete Game Consulting, it dawned on me all the things I’ve done in the last two and a half years to make sure I’m showing up every single day for the business.

So let me go into depth. Let me go to some details on what do I mean by doing whatever it takes to win and making sure, in doing so that I am showing up every single day. When I look back at the first 30 months of this business, if I were to put my finger on some key areas that we have leverage, key things we have done, and I’d say I because I’m going to talk very personal for a second, I have done to make sure this business is in its best position to succeed.

It starts with me, you know, how am I taking care of myself? There is no way I can reach my full potential or the business can reach its full potential if I’m not in good health, I’m not in good shape, both mentally and physically. So the first place I’d tell you to look if you want to reach your full potential right now, it starts with How are you taking care of yourself?

But what I want to share today, as far as are you willing to do whatever it takes to win, it comes back to that just showing up every day, making it a non-negotiable. And here’s what I mean about that. Let me share a couple examples, both personally and things I’ve seen from our clients that prove to us they are willing to do whatever it takes to win.

They are willing to go above and beyond to grow their business. So I look back at our first two and a half years and a couple of moments that really stand out, and one was very recent about doing whatever you have to do to show up for your clients, for your business, almost making it a non-negotiable, like it’s not even a thought as to whether or not I’m going to do this.

The first happened early on in the existence of complete game consulting. As I mentioned, I started the business January 1st, the real going all in on the business officially on January 1st, 2021, come August 2021. So eight months later I was hit with a pretty bad leg infection. I was on the road speaking in Ohio when I when the infection developed, and by the time I got home from that road trip, I found myself in a in an emergency room and immediately admitted into the hospital where I spent the next six days.

But let me talk about where the showing up comes in. Here I am in a hospital bed and I’ve got my leg bandaged. I’m hooked up with IVs, I’m hooked up with antibiotics. They’re monitoring every angle of my body. And I look at my calendar and I realize that I’ve got some coaching calls and I was hospitalized on a Friday, and I think I was I was able to go home by the following Wednesday.

And I remember when Monday and Tuesday rolled around and by that point I was stable. It was a matter of just letting my leg heal. They weren’t comfortable enough with the numbers yet to let me go home, but I felt pretty good, except for the fact they could walk because I had this leg infection. I can remember leading a few of my coaching calls, the ones I had on the calendar with my laptop from the couch in my hospital room.

Now, when I told Amy my girlfriend that I was going to do this, she thought I was nuts. But I said to I said, No, I got to show up for my clients. I understand I have a leg infection. I understand, but I feel fine. I have to show up for my clients. It was even a second thought.

Now you might say to me, 80. That’s maniacal. Like, that’s insane. But is it? That’s one example of making the consistency of showing up every day a non negotiable. The second example I think about is just happened last week. Amy and I had a vacation planned up in northern Wisconsin as as you know, we just moved back here a month ago and when we got to our first destination, I realized I had forgot my laptop charger and that was an oh shit moment because I did have some coaching calls scheduled in the mornings and now I didn’t have a laptop charger to make sure my laptop would stay juiced up throughout the week.

And if you own a MacBook or an Apple computer, Apple laptop like I do, try to find a charger that works is is impossible. So I was escolha. Fortunately, I found a way to kind of rig up a charging system, but it didn’t work very well. So here I found myself by Wednesday with a computer that was about to lose its power, and I had more than a few coaching calls to give those mornings we were and Wednesday and Thursday.

And on Wednesday, because the computer had lost so much juice and the only way I could charge the computer was using a rigged up system. But the cord, the cord for the rigged up system was less than a half a foot long. I had to sit on the floor of our kitchen in the place we were staying to run my coaching calls, including our broker branding academy.

I’m sure it looked pretty strange for the people on the call to see me teaching them sitting on the floor of the kitchen. But I said to myself, It doesn’t matter. I got to show up. My clients don’t. They don’t care about the challenges I’m having right now. They want to grow their business. They they’re focused on doing what they have to do to win.

And in order to do that, I’ve got to show up. It’s a non-negotiable. And so as you look at your business, the final six months of this year, take a pretty honest assessment of your performance up until this point. Are you doing whatever it takes to win? Are you willing to go the extra mile to put in the extra hour it takes to hit your goals this year?

All right. Or are you willing to admit. Yeah, Andy, you know, I have to admit, probably, especially since the weather’s gotten a little nicer, I’ve taken my foot off the gas and I’ve coasted a little bit. I’ve talked about this a lot recently, how easy it is to make an excuse for an entire year as to why selling in the moment is not a top priority in Q1.

Andy, I can’t I can’t focus on selling right now. I’ve got to kind of clean up all of my one one renewals in Q2. It’s okay. I’m going to I’m going to build a list. I’m going to put a really good list of prospects together and I’m going to perfect it. I want it I want it perfect before I send that first email or make that first call, which, by the way, never comes.

And then in Q3, it’s, you know, Andy, it’s summer, It’s nice. We’ve got a couple of vacations planned. My clients are on vacation. It’s probably not a good time. I’m not going to reach anybody. And then we all know the excuse for it. You kid me, you want me to try to sell something in November or December? I’ve got all these renewals to handle and you literally excuse yourself throughout the entire year, year after year, as to why you’re not selling.

That is an example of an unwillingness to do whatever it takes to succeed.

Last week on the podcast, I had Dominic Fran Keeney join me and Dominic is an extremely successful health insurance adviser with Harran in Cincinnati and we were talking about that. The keys that have allowed him to build a multimillion dollar book of business over his career. And there was one thing that I stat that that he’s done, that when I observe what he does that stood out for me that said, yep, this guy’s willing to do whatever it takes.

And that is a year ago he participated in an RFP and the RFP was for a large manufacturer in the southern Ohio market that specialized in aviation. I think they may have made parts for planes and Dominic already extremely successful, somebody who probably could take his foot off the gas if he wanted to and just be fine, decided, you know, in order to win this thing, I’m going to go above and beyond.

I’m going to do the extra work it takes to win this. So he decided that along with submitting the RFP, he was going to submit a video with the RFP, which where he delivered the entire RFP from a cockpit of an airplane. He took the time, invested the money to rent a plane, go up in the sky, record the video RFP, because he knew he was going to do whatever it took to succeed.

Now, here’s the punchline of that story. He didn’t win the RFP. It’s easy to go 80. What was the point? He didn’t even win. He did all that and he still lost. Yeah, I get it. But it’s willing to go the extra mile. It’s willing to do whatever it takes, even if success is not guaranteed. That’s maybe a better question to ask today.

Are you willing to do whatever it takes to succeed, even if success is not guaranteed? So that’s the question I want you to chew on as we wrap up today’s episode. I wanted to give you some examples. When I look back at our 30 months in business and some of the things for me that stand out when it comes to the secrets, the keys that have allowed us to succeed.

And one of the things I’m proud to say is one of our pillars, a complete game is our willingness and our desire to just show up every day for our clients. It’s a non-negotiable. No matter what’s happening in my life, our our business, my employees lives, we know the number one priority is our clients, and we have to show up for them.

So ask yourself that same question as we start the second half of 2023. Are you doing whatever it takes to succeed or are you negotiating with your own success right now? Are you letting yourself off the hook? Are you failing to show up because you don’t feel just right that today’s not the right day or the perfect moment?

There is no perfect time to have success, my friend. And I’m here to tell you the number one success tip I will ever give you is just be consistent. Just show up every single day and do what ever you have to do to succeed. That’s the big secret between you and those advisors you’re looking up at right now.

They’re willing to do what you’re not. So let’s get back to the basics. Let’s have an amazing second half of the year. You still have a long way to go to hit your sales goals, meaning a lot of time to hit your sales goals. And the one thing that’s going to make success as close to guaranteed as possible is your willingness to go above and beyond.

So use today’s episode as inspiration. Get out and get after it and do what you have to do to go win business. Be good, my friend.